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I'm an italian girl. Some years ago I have accused my father to abuse me,
while I was in a psychiatry clinic, and when I take many many
psyco-medicines (sorry for my english). I have the allucinations, and with
the help of the doctors, I tell a story about a monster that abuse me, and
the doctors help me to say that the monster was my father. I was 16 years
old, and now I'm 24 years old. I study, I work, I have a normal life. Some
month later I went away by the clinic. I made a ginecological visit, when
result that I was still vergin! Then I went to home, and I recognised my
mistake, I have accused my father, but my father was innocent, and was in
prision. So I call the police and said that I have invented all the story,
that my words was false, all false. So, in all the processes (7) I have
always said that my father is innocent, and that I have invented all the
story.
But none, NO ONE belive to me! Only a time my father was declared innocent,
in the second process.
Some month ago I have asked to the President of Italian Repubblic the GRAZIA
for my father. But today I have knew that the answer is negative. No grazia.
My father has been still condanned. What can I do? Someone can help me
please? I'M A MONSTER, not my father. We have the prove, but now the process
is finished and i can't demostred it.
Please help me! I find many sites on Internet about false abuse. But in
Italy it is never happened. This possibility, that a girl can invented false
abuse, is not take in consideration.
Probably the news paper will write new articols... and I'll go on the TV.
But the law is not the TV.
Can you give me an opinion?

Alessandra;

You are not monster. You are a human. You made a mistake. Many others

made a mistake. You are better than most if you find mistake, and try to

make better. Here is my advice:

* Be prepared. Get all information on your case. Show why it is wrong.

Make it into a book. Make many copies. Include reports from three doctors

or more, saying you are still virgin. Include letters to government, and

what government said.

* You are weak when you are alone. You must find friends to help you.

Tell them entire story. They must write letters to newspapers, radio, and

tv. Include what they say in your report. Ask them for advice, then take

it.

* You must go to newspapers, radios, tv shows. They will not want to hear

you at first. You and friends must keep talking to them and keep trying.

Eventually, a few will let you be heard. Then more will let you be heard.

Then people will get upset. Upset people make government do things - maybe

release father. They are your best hope.

* Go to church. You feel bad. You must be forgiven. Only God can do

that. God will help you, but you must pray to Him. Your prayer is stronger

when you know Him better. You know Him better when you go to church.

You think it may be hopeless. It is not hopeless. You must work very hard.

You must pray. You must have faith. You are NOT monster. Your work will

make you a better human.

Sincerely;

John Gilman

CPR Webmaster

help yourself to articles on my web site...

this is horrible... i wish you well...i'm telling my itialian

collaborator about you in case she can help...

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suggest you go to the website of the false memory syndrome foundation....

maybe they can help you too!

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this is a recent newsletter from the british organization...maybe they can

help

Elizabeth Loftus

Psychology Department

Box 351525

University of Washington

Seattle, Washington 98195-1525

tel: (206) 543-7184

fax: (206) 685-3157

EMAIL: eloftus@u.washington.edu

WEB: http://faculty.washington.edu/eloftus

Dear Alessandra,

If you wish I can spread your story around the internet community of

men,fathers, parent's groups who all have experience with false allegations.

Some of the groups in Europe may be able to bring pressure to bear on the

Italian government. I will also find who to send your information to here in

Australia - we have a very large Italian community.

Is there any possibility of getting your website translated into English -

more people would then be able to understand the situation your father is

in?

For how many years was he sentenced to jail and when is he due to be

released?

Please let me know if you want me to circulate your letter?

Thank you for striving to bring out the truth!

Kind regards

Sue Price,

Men's Rights Agency

P.O. Box 28, Waterford Q 4133 Australia

Tel: 07 3805 5611 Fax: 07 3200 8769

Email: mra@ecn.net.au

Website: www.mensrights.com.au

Dear Alessandra,

I do hope your case will be resolved in the near future. As I wrote

yesterday on ICQ (in Italian), it is difficult for a person in another

country to give advice, since we are unfamiliar with Italian law, which

would seem to be critical in your case. You might get help from

international organizations, but as for single individuals, all we can do is

wish you well, and be as supportive as possible.

I will pass this onto an Italo-American friend who may know better than I

what steps to help.

Sincerely,

Jeanne

Ciao Alessandra,

Ho appena ricevuto il tuo messaggio per ICQ e letto il tua homepage e ti

dico che mi pare incredìbile questa storia!!!

Io sono peruviana, pero' farò qualcosa per aiutar a te e tua famiglia. Ho

pensato sempre che la ingiustizia è il peggio

che possa succedere a una persona e nessuno ne è libero.

Ho alcuni amici italiani e farò sapere a tutti la tua storia.. e sono sicura

che qualche giorno tuo padre sarà libero.....

Saluti,